Guys who CHASE after Women...and the Women who use them :-\

I guess this is what makes the world go 'round, but its still a fascinating thing. FELLAS, stop chasing these females. When I say "chase", I mean running up to females and giving them pick up lines. It's so corny. Its even worse on MySpace. These picture comments are sickening. Here are a few I've seen before:

-Baby cum here and sit on my face!
-I would spend my entire paycheck on you!
-I'm so in love. I want to put it in!

Don't you realize it makes you look desperate? Weak? Insecure? And stop taking T-Pain's advice and buying these chicks drinks. If she likes you SHE should buy YOU the drink, take YOU home, "sex" you, AND make YOU breakfast. Be a man and not a simp.

Okay LADIES, calm down...you're not in the clear either. You already know that most men are like panting dogs waiting to get into your pants. That said, stop using them because it WILL bite you in the ass. As I state in my new book, "From MySpace to My Place: The Ladies' Guide to Finding Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now, you ladies need to stop hanging out with men you aren't romantically (or sexually) interested in, for the sole purpose of attaining tangibles, UNLESS you clearly express that interest. It amazes me that a woman will accept drinks from a stranger all night, but has a NERVE to act upset when he proposes leaving the club to go back to his place. SHE KNOWS WHAT HE WANTED! Now ladies, ITS COOL to get your hustle on. We're in a recession. However, know the consequences.

I had a friends-with-benefits relationship with this one female who would borrow a guys car to come and see me. This was a guy who WORSHIPPED her and she used this dude for his money, his car and his attention. (But she only gave me the goods...aint that somethin?) However this female had a nerve to get upset once the dude took his keys back, once he realized he was being "had".

Fellas, stop putting the "cooch" on a pedestal. Watch for attraction signals. Read her "non-verbal" queues and act accordingly and laid back. And ladies, be real with yourselves. If you don't like a dude, have the courage to let him know. And if he STILL wants to shower you with gifts, THAT is GAME.

Flyness has spoken. ;)


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