Last night, I went out on a second "date" with someone. Very cool girl. However, she asked the infamous "So how many women have you slept with?" question. Granted she tends to pick my brain since I'm a relationship author (Check out www.myspacetomyplace.com)
But ladies, consider the following:
*Do you really expect men to be honest with you? (Afterall MOST women lie about their sexual partners)
*Would it matter if he said 948 partners and meant it?
*Do you really even want to know?
So in response to my date, I said "10,000" with a serious, but smug look. She hesitated, and stuttered, "You're not serious, are you?" I proceeded to tell her I was experienced, but at the end of the day, the NUMBER means nothing. And whether my number is 10, 100, 1,000 or 100,000, it really doesn't matter.
Guys, same thing...don't ever ask a woman this question. She'll give you a cute number like 3 or 4. Watever she gives you fellas, add a '0'. 4 = 40. 7=70, etc. Lol. Plus it makes you look insecure. Instead look at her mannerisms, her body language and other nonverbal queues. Thats all you really need to "guestimate" her experience. ;)
And if you want more game, check out my books at http://www.MySpaceToMyPlace.com. I've met hundreds of ladies online and made two informative guides--one for the men is out NOW! The LADIES Guide will be released in on TUES. Feb 10. 2009.
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